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Mital Goswami

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MitalGoswami › New article
8 years ago

Hello Everyone

Today I want to share a deep secret with you all. I want you to tell me what does love mean to you all? 
 
Each individual have different opinions to love, for some it may mean wanting someone or something so bad that you can't wait to make it yours and for others it may mean just you and me and no one else.

So now let me tell you, half of the population mistakes love with lust. Do you agree? 
Love is not always about sex and neither is about wanting, it's about care, feelings, nurturing, understanding, being together through storm and sunny days, also it's to let go even if it hurts the most. Only the lucky ones gets to be with their love and some has to forget.

I was in love with someone else before I got married and always wished that if his family had agreed we would've been together despite our differences, but then reality is we don't always get what we want, we get what we need in life, no matter how heartbreaking it is, destiny will always lead you to a path where everything will be confusing but hence it will be the only thing that will matter and take life as it goes.

After many breakups and heartbreaks I had learnt to be strong and stopped looking for love, I waited for love to find me and when it did, it felt so unrealistic because I thought people will only use you and will never look back, I was afraid at first but then I learnt to accept it and it was so wonderful and never like before, just like my very own fairytale.

With no love, there would be only living bodies with no soul and everyone would be cruel and not understand how love can change a person from within.  Feelings would die if you let it go completely but if you hold on something so dear to you, it would be the only thing you will ever live for.

I'm sure all of you had heard of this quote before 'part of loving, is to let go?' how many do you agree and have accepted it? Letting go does not mean loving less, it just simply means it wasn't our time but I will never stop loving you. I personally agree because I met a guy whom I  had so much in common with that he was the only person I want in my life and I only wanted to be with but sadly it wasn't meant to be. Now I have a husband, he's the only person I ever want, no 3rd person. He is my only world.

I have forgiven those who have used me and made me feel like I'm the worst person, if it wasn't for them I would never learn to be the person I am today and we should never judge a person by its past, but for what they are today.

Love is everywhere; between a husband to his wife, a mother and father to their children, girlfriend and boyfriend, between friends, a pet and even where you are right now.

Never stop loving because it's the only cure to everything even if  you hate it so much just look at it with a different perspective and everything will just resolve by itself also never stop showing how much you care, which will may bring you closer to your loved ones than ever.

Be forgiving, Have no regrets, Love openly and tenderly.

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Hello Everyone Today I want to share a deep secret with you all. I want you to tell me what does love mean to you all? Each individual have different opinions to love, for some it may mean wanting someone or something so bad that you can't wait to make it yours and for others it may mean jus... Read more

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ze2000 › Is there a consensus? I think everyone has a different opinion, a different interpretation.

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MitalGoswami › All opinions are accepted

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Smokey2017 › Love for me comes down to trust
And wanting to be together
If a man makes you laugh
Non stop
And treats you like a princess then he is the one for you
I have been married 31 years and been together 35 years

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Violeta › Very nice article

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MitalGoswami › New article
8 years ago

Hey Everyone,

What I'm about to write now is only to be understood by those who wants to make the most out of life and wants to live a positive life.

The way I see life is as a temporary living, when we were born we came empty handed but were attached to our mother and father or an older sibling, we came with nothing but still had everything to make us complete. When we will die we will leave everything behind; money, our home, family, our friends, degree anything you name it and will be buried with nothing but will only take one thing....memories which our loved ones also will have of us and will carry it forward.

As we are still living we might just make most of it. Live life to the fullest, imagine and dream the impossibilities, go on crazy adventures, love as you have never been hurt, laugh as loud as you can, dance like crazy and always keep smiling. Don't keep yourself too busy that you get lost in the crowd. Always make time for yourself and your loved ones even if you don't feel like you want to talk just drop a text to say 'hi, i missed you' the other person will feel special and will make them smile. Spread happiness and be the shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen, you will feel better and so will someone else.

Start every morning as a new chapter in your life and never should yesterday's episode affect what you can achieve today. Say sorry even if you didn't do anything wrong, it won't make you less of a person but will put the other person below you. Learn to forgive, never regret anything and see it as something you can learn from to be better. Always be true to yourself and others around you. Be the best of the person you are and never think low of yourself because no one is perfect and everyone has flaws, that's what makes us human.

Successful people have interesting failures but they never gave up, so in order to succeed we shouldn't stop aiming for our goal, we can always find one way or another if we never give up trying. Just carry on what you do the best and watch yourself climb high. If you want to be inspired then look into the famous failures who is now internationally known. Most of you know Richard Branson, Bill Gates and Steven Jobs and their work, when you have read their stories, you should already be motivated. I know I am.

You don't need to be famous to have your name known. You just need to get out there and sell your talent, then watch yourself grow.

Cherish what you have today, be grateful for all small things and don't demand what can't afford. Work your way through success  because somewhere someone is looking forward to being you, be your own idol, love yourself for your flaws and good qualities.

That's my friends how you make most of your life. 
Live the life you dream. Dream the life you want.

Thank you for reading.

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Hey Everyone, What I'm about to write now is only to be understood by those who wants to make the most out of life and wants to live a positive life. The way I see life is as a temporary living, when we were born we came empty handed but were attached to our mother and father or an older sibli... Read more

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ze2000 › very nice reading this. You're absolutely right.

There is a lot of social pressure to be successful now, nothing like years back you need everything the best: house, car, job, phone,... and if you don't then society treats it like a failure. It's so wrong and I hope this changes.

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MitalGoswami › @ze2000 yes you're right, but the fact is we exist to make a change and to make something out of our living, we forget how materialistic people are and how they want everything which is only temporary settlement. Be successful for yourself not for everyone else, you exist to make yourself worth of living no one will do that for you. You should, actually we all should think 'I'm born to make something out of my life and I want to do something great, I want people to know me as a great failure who has proved that you only get a life once which was worth all the struggles'.

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ze2000 › But humanity is a social entity. We are born to be social. And the way society is organised now is what causes people to feel bad if the don't achieve at least the average than other humans.

So it's not a human fault, is a socierty organisation fault. And this you can see the differente in different cultures. In some places we honour the eldest, in other places the richest, in others the wisest, and so on.

Unfortunately we live in the wrong society, the one ruled by capitalism.

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MitalGoswami › New article
8 years ago

Hi Everyone. My name is Mital Goswami and I am Brit Indian and happily married. I am an artist, a writer, masseuse and have a strong creative imagination. I live my life on my terms, I like to keep my options open and free to learn and try anything new. My favourite books are twilight saga, f... Read more

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Borderline › Hi! Welcome here! very interesting.

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ze2000 › Welcome! Where have you been so far? Where do you want to go next?

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MitalGoswami › I have studied art and design for 4 years and I'm not sure where I will be but for the present time I'm still exploring my options and maybe will go ahead and do what I enjoy most.

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HappyLady › It is so nice to meet someone who writes well and is also an artist. I hope to get to know you better on this site as my interests are similar.

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MitalGoswami › @happylady thank you for your comment and don't forget to follow me and like them as you go, as I do feel satisfied when someone appreciates my work. Thank you and I'll also be looking forward to reading your work too. X

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