Why do some people lose themselves when they get into a relationship?

When two people get together and start a relationship, they can both have their own life. There is going to be how one person likes spend to their life and then there is going to be how the other person likes to spend their life.

Through being together, certain parts of their life are naturally going to change, while there will be other parts that won't. What is clear is that they won't have as much time as they did before to focus on certain needs, and this is because they will spend a certain amount of time with the other person.

Still, this is not to say that being in a relationship will be something that will have a negative effect on their life. Some things may need to be put to one side and they might not have as much time as they did before to do certain things, but being with the other person will allow them to fulfil needs that were not being met before.

There will be the physical needs that they are able to meet, as well the emotional needs. They may even be at the stage in their life where they are ready start a family, so this is another need that they will be able to fulfil.

And, through having someone in their life who they can depend on, it can make it a lot easier for them to achieve their goals and to be their best self. The support that the other person gives them can allow them to reach out for things that they wouldn't have reached out for before.

What this comes down to is that no one is their own island; they need others in order to function at their best. Ultimately, these two people will be a team, and this is what will allow them to be stronger together.

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