The Eviction of a Family Member: It Should Be Done!

In every family, a new member will be accepted without any second thoughts. Son-in-law or daughter-in-law is being accepted by the in-laws because he or she married their children. Despite the differences, both parties will adjust and be connected as much as possible. As they said, “Welcome to the family.” But then, things will change if wrongdoing happened. It varies with what type of wrongdoings done by each member of the family.

The most serious sin is that a man or woman is involving adultery. It is not accepted in the eyes of God and in the society. Once it was being revealed, then adulterer should voluntary leave the family. If not, then where are the decency and the morality issue. All the family members are affected with such sin. The best course of action is to be evicted in the family and find ways to clear up the wrongdoing in life.

A story had started when my father’s brother went to America. He needs to go and leave his family to chase a green pasture and to have a better life. A typical issue of betrayal happened in a long distance relationship his wife started seeing another man. At first, it was kept in secret and eventually, the rotten behavior came out to the open with so many circumstances. The result, they got separated and decided to cut the communication.

My uncle’s wife continued to live in the family house after the separation. But then, the family members need to intervene and asked the wife to move out of the house. For morality sake, she needs to go and find her way to a new life. Initially, she refused to do so. But then, she was forced to be evicted. There is no chance to compromise something because of the adultery issue. I felt bad for her but she needs to move out. It creates tension in the family and a serious mistake became full-blown through the years.

Eviction still happens in the family and it varies what kind of issues or concerns. Betrayal can also be seen and witnessed by the family members. It was a difficult situation because the children were so affected. These children cannot do anything but to accept the marriage failure of their parents. That’s the reality happening in the modern world. It cannot be denied that this is one factor resulting in broken families.

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