The road to freedom

I declare 2019 as the year "The most important person in my life is the EU!"
No, I do not declare a year of selfishness. On the contrary. I declare a year of great changes. Good choices.
Trust and self-esteem. The year in which each will receive what he deserves and in which he will realize his dreams. Nothing is impossible for someone who really wants something. Nothing can stop a man who believes in him and who is cherished. A man who values himself does not abandon his dreams. Do not let it down. Do not give up. Fight to become what he wants to be.
First of all, each of us must realize who he is and who he wants to be. And he must understand that he must be who he wants, not who they want.
We must cease to live for others, to please them, to thank them, to integrate us into a superficial society and false values.
People have expectations of us, but we have no obligations and debts to them. We have only responsibilities towards our children, families, friends and society. Responsibilities that we can successfully accomplish only if we are a good example to everyone. An unhappy man, a weak man, will never be a good example. He will never be happy and will convey this to others. Self-dissatisfaction will be seen in all his gestures, in deeds and in choices.
Ready for lamentations and ready for victimization. Getting rid of the heavy and unnecessary luggage that has burdened our past. Our souls must be light, floating. And for that we have to get rid of all the load that makes them uncomfortable.
This year we want to write a story to each of us. A story of retrieval, of success, of fulfilled dreams, of more beautiful ones, of love, of happiness.
You just have to believe in yourself and make good choices. Your life depends only on yourselves and God. Nothing and no one can stop you from your right path, and if you always find arguments not to make changes, it's just an excuse that will keep you away from your accomplishments.
You, the one who reads me now, are not the only ones you have suffered. There are millions of people who have lost to love, who have been abandoned, who have been betrayed, who have been wronged, who have abandoned themselves and who have forgotten who they are, what they can and what they deserve. All the failures, all the failures and disillusionments took the confidence and the strength of these people.
No one will come to knock at your door to give you confidence, strength and desire to live nicely. You alone must find them and fight for your goals.
All you have to do is become a better TU, forgive everything that has made you suffer and forgive yourself for everything you have failed. Kindness is power, and forgiveness is a gateway to freedom.
Draw a line between past and present and make good choices. Look strictly towards the future and seek motivation in love for you, for life and for the people who matter in your life.
You are not a person at random. You are unique, wonderful and perfect.
No one can decide your life, choices, and happiness. All you belong to is yours.
I believe in you and I want you to get where you want to go. You can and you deserve!

Irina Binder