Never Expect High Hopes From Others

Life is not fully dependent on others. We still need to decide for ourselves. It is a self-concern if being manipulated or expecting too much on behalf of others. We are still living in an imperfect world. Whatever the cause of something, we should never expect high hopes from others. If we do, we will expect that our lives are dysfunctional. It is not healthy to cling to someone at all times. We need to stand up with reason and live to the fullest without the presence of others. This is the typical nature of a woman being betrayed and cannot move one because of loving their significant loved ones.

In a relationship, we are normally looking for someone to hang on. They are the support system to live with a purpose. But then, some people who are so attached to our lives will never stay long. Protecting ourselves with such expectations needed to live independently. We don’t want to fall into a hurting moment and hibernate in the four corners of the room. It is a normal way to cope up with depression. Being detached is normal within three months. It is similar to grieving the death of someone who had touched our heart dearly.

A person can be luckier and never have the chance to feel intense heartaches. He or she had found the right person. Life is not a fairytale. It is not always a happy ending story. However, the world will not end there. We just need to tame down the rage of hatred and never stop loving oneself. Give time to love oneself before others. Imperfection in love is fine. The indifference can work out as long as the person knows how to compromise and be inspired with great confidence in oneself. We need to believe in ourselves.

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