Judgement
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It takes quite a lot of good deeds to make people love you, but it only takes one lousy error for them to hate you - an adage that is true in most situations, I have experienced this as well.
People tend to forget the good things you did to them, and worse, judge you because of some lousy or unintended errors. This will show who your true friends are.
Someone is being judgmental when their judgments are power-driven, unempathetic, based on their own idiosyncratic values or tastes, overly based on other people’s character, and are closed, shallow, and pessimistic, and ultimately have the consequence of making the other person feel problematically diminished.
Just keep doing good. Be faithful and honest. And be courageous to speak up the truth at the right place and time.
#judgement
#courage
#kindness
People tend to forget the good things you did to them, and worse, judge you because of some lousy or unintended errors. This will show who your true friends are.
Someone is being judgmental when their judgments are power-driven, unempathetic, based on their own idiosyncratic values or tastes, overly based on other people’s character, and are closed, shallow, and pessimistic, and ultimately have the consequence of making the other person feel problematically diminished.
Just keep doing good. Be faithful and honest. And be courageous to speak up the truth at the right place and time.
#judgement
#courage
#kindness
