By Strabunica013
65 days ago

About Relationship

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Even if relations are difficult, they are "holy".
That's how I understood so far.

However, the most difficult and pressing relational aspect is that in order to "support" the partner to understand certain things or to bring to conscious certain "blockages" you are forced without wanting to play some extremely ingrained roles. Like in constellations if you've ever participated in such a thing.

You simply enter your partner's energy and become someone else. You play the role of a parent or grandparent or a former partner.

Yes. It's weird to see how you start to make yourself as you would not have imagined. It is hallucinating to feel that you have become for some time somebody else, the clarification coming later if you have the intuition to ask some questions or if you are informed that such a thing may exist.

But as most people are unaware of these fine mechanisms, everything remains at:
"What did you get?",
"What is happening with you?" or ...
 it turns into a terrible quarrel .... "You, me, too."

Without wanting to make others to manifest themselves in some way to understand certain things. And it's wonderful, even if sometimes those in relationship with us are acting like a hell. I do it by virtue of a harmonization that is difficult for us to understand.

I got some 8 years ago this skema somewhere and I admit that it seemed to me to be extremely dubious for the first time when I noticed that she was suddenly the former girlfriend of a girl with whom I looked to heaven in those times. Extremely dubious and pretty bloody because the guy had some problems in the attic, and I felt a few minutes of rafting. And her face was marked by this relationship that had existed since adolescence.

Then I had all sorts of theater plays that I began to authorize knowing that they had a meaning, even if it was painful to see you in dramatic situations.

At the same time it was quite difficult to accept the phenomenon, to fully understand the victim's dynamics, the aggressor, the savior. It was hard to accept that they can generate chaos and massive purification passages in people for the sake of future harmony.

It helped me a lot to understand this phenomenon of key genes 50, where Balance and Harmony are spoken, and finally we accepted this role play and the great importance of chaos in our flourishing. I'm somewhere in a key position in the profile.

Yes. Relationships are sacred, true theater plays staged in life so we can all grow up. We do not want to dress roles of saints, devils, puddits, immorals, drunks, curses, virtuosos, sinners. We are also the victims, the executioners, the rescuers, all for our benefit, the partner and the whole as difficult as we are to achieve.

It is important to learn not to judge ourselves, nor to judge our partners any thing we have or manifested.
 WE WANT THIS MIND.
Nothing is to be judged, but everything to be embraced because it looks, serves us, increases us.

Oh, how hard you authorize in difficult times, in times when you manifest as hell when you suck without you, but so simply.

But here comes peace and harmony. Allowing you to be as you are, for sometimes you are a manifier and it makes much sense even if you do not see it.

That is why life theories are sometimes useless. What it is is important. Life and not the theory. What is flowing and not what it could have been.

Long live the art of relaxation on a relational level, anyway you would be anyway. That really means you care. That for you the relationships are holy.

The endeavor to always be good or not, does not help. In fact, it prevents us, until we learn to let us be as we are.

Life is a wonderful piece that urgently invites us to play our part. Whatever it is.
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